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Helping Your Child With ADHD Make Friends |
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Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) can make it hard for your child to make friends. ADHD behavior can lead other kids to avoid your child. Behaviors that are common ADHD symptoms, such as pushiness, impatience, and verbal and physical abusiveness, can upset or intimidate classmates or peers. There are some things you can try to help your
child get along with others. Ask teachers, coaches, and leaders of after-school activities to use the same ideas, or to come up with ideas of their own.
Model good behavior
Children often learn by watching others. Your family should set a good example. Be polite, share, and take turns. You can also pair your child with a child around
the same age who has good social skills.
Arrange and supervise activities with others
Arrange play dates or organize activities with 1 or 2 other children. Children with ADHD don't always do well in larger groups. Keep the group small. Plan structured activities, and make sure you are there to watch. Watch for any signs that activity is becoming out of hand—too loud, rough, or hostile. Try to settle things down by interrupting the children's play for a snack or another quieter activity. If your child starts misbehaving, quietly take him or her aside. Explain what is wrong. These times will allow your child to practice the right way to act in order to make and keep friends.
Pair up your child with another child who is a positive role model
A child who naturally uses good social skills can influence your child's behaviors. By the same token, avoid children who are too aggressive or who lack good social skills.
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